No couple escapes the process of fighting. Many people think that fighting is a bad thing. In fact, everything has its pros and cons. From another point of view, quarreling is instead a good thing to increase your relationship and strengthen your communication. Because couples really fight for the purpose of reconciliation, in love quarrel is not to win or lose, but to let the feelings of warming up again after the reconciliation. Through the quarrel can hear each other’s heart has been unable to speak words, care point and tolerance bottom line. But sometimes too much noise will cause the result of both sides of the results, so couples need to know what to pay attention to quarrel.
Pay attention to the bottom line
The most important reason why you tend to lose your temper in a fight is that you don’t consider the other person’s bottom line. To realize that he is your partner is your lover, not your enemy. So don’t hold on to the other person’s ancestors when arguing, and don’t challenge the other person’s bottom line. As far as most normal people are concerned, the most they can do when arguing is to curse his friends or teachers. In any case, as long as the other party’s loved ones involved, it is easy to let the quarrel out of focus, become no longer just a simple quarrel , the plot can easily towards the headlines of tomorrow’s newspaper development. If you don’t want to have any accidents because of the husband and wife quarrel, remember don’t touch each other’s bottom line. In this way, no matter how intense your quarrel, in the end will also be a good separation.
Showing weakness is the best tactic
Men do eat up women’s pettiness, and you don’t need to put on airs like in a TV show, just make the other person feel like you’re being pampered or showing weakness. When you realize an argument is about to get out of hand, make good use of your innate strengths. A woman’s greatest weapon is pearly tears. Show your softer side by shedding tears in front of him. When you look at him with red, weeping eyes, he can’t say anything harsh even if he wants to argue with you again. This will even make him feel compassion for you, hug you and comfort you. All it takes is for you to soften your ever-armed emotions a little bit, and the next thing you know, you can really pour your heart out to each other and take your relationship a step further.
Timing the end of an argument
If you feel that weakness is not a tactic that works for you, then you need to know when to end an argument. After a heated argument, there will be a period of calm. During this time, if the other person starts to talk as if nothing is happening or says something meaningless first, instead of saying something that intensifies the argument, then you should know when to end the argument. For example, when the other person says something like what’s for dinner tonight or kneels down in front of you with an abacus and begs for peace. This is the right time to end the argument. Don’t fail to curb your temper, sometimes you have to soften your stance to get this conversation to a productive stage. After all, any dispute is started in order to be taken seriously, and you should end it when you’ve accomplished your goal!
Never be cold and violent.
The purpose of an argument is to communicate better with your significant other. So when you have an argument the first step is to speak to each other and talk about the problem and the solution. Never choose the means of cold violence in the first place, there is no way to go further in your relationship without communication. If you do not belong to the type that can communicate well, just quarrel to your heart’s content! Because of the inexplicable sulking so that the other party can not get a clue or wait for him to ask, long time will always feel that you are in the inexplicable storm, easy to let the other party decided to give up no longer make fun of themselves!
Don’t suppress your emotions
Quarrels can cause adrenaline to surge in both parties, and can also cause inexplicable emotional impulses as they stimulate the brain to secrete intense emotional cells. I believe that some friends should have had such an experience, and the other half of the fight and make up the moment, suddenly have a kind of lost and found want to immediately do the feeling. Then each other in the heart with evil thoughts want to punish each other through another form. In this moment, you can try a new sex game with him, and he just made up with you, he will not refuse. Try double stimulation with him, no matter what position he enters you in, you can turn on the sucking function of the Rose Toy and place it on your clitoris. Feeling the dual sensations of oral sex and vaginal penetration simulated by the Rose Toy will make both of you feel even more extreme enjoyment than usual.
Conclusion.
Love doesn’t happen overnight. There are no shortcuts, and only through constant bonding with each other, mutual understanding and tolerance, can you feel the beauty of life together. You can’t understand why a boy loves to play games, just like he doesn’t understand why you shoot for food, so it’s inevitable that you will have quarrels. But as long as we know some tips, we can easily turn quarrels into the sweetness of love and harmony.